This is so very beautiful and poignant!! Intimate…I love it. You worded and expressed this so well and non-judgementally. When I ran into your article, I was in the throes of trying to figure out how I was going to have “quality time” with my grandson tonight in time to get him to bed in a decent enough of an hour to allow me to write and work on my blog,…which was stagnated today due to my having to deal with the electric company. You redirected me and that is what I love about perception and writing. Thank you!